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Posted by fredjoiners on November 6, 2009
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23rd Psalm for Recovery
Posted by fredjoiners on November 3, 2009
The Lord is my sponsor, I shall not want.
He makes me to go to many meetings.
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ANOTHER SOBER ALCOHOLIC: SOME THOUGHTS ON GRATITUDE
Posted by fredjoiners on October 29, 2009
ANOTHER SOBER ALCOHOLIC: SOME THOUGHTS ON GRATITUDE.
Many of us Peeps (“We the Peeps”!) from time to time write our gratitude lists in the posts. It is GooooD for me to read these, and to be reminded how important it is–to know and recognize that God is the constant Giver, and I, the undeserving receiver. I am SO grateful for SO many things which I take SO for granted.
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Little Eyes, Little Ears
Posted by fredjoiners on August 23, 2009
Little eyes, little ears; how violence against a mother shapes children as they grow
Children are changed by growing up with violence and abuse at home
Bad sights, sounds and experiences take many forms. A hit or slap is obvious to see. Abusive words and interactions cause invisible bruises.
Change can be sudden or change can be gradual
Violence at home can take the form of one or more traumatic incidents triggering sudden change. Or changes can occur slowly in reaction to the daily dynamics of abusive relationships, shaping a child incrementally as he or she grows.
Change can be visible or change can be inside
Some changes show in a child’s behaviour, such as crying, aggression, or disrespect to women. Violence in the home also changes how children think and feel – about themselves, their families and life in general.
Children are not passive witnesses to noise, tension and violence at home
Little eyes and little ears don’t miss much, soaking in sights and sounds. Child "witnesses" of violence and abuse are overwhelmed by intense feelings and concentrate hard on their own thoughts. They may feel confused and scared and blame themselves.
As they watch or listen, they guess what caused the "fight," imagine what might happen next, and anticipate potential consequences.
Change can be bad and change can be good
By understanding a child’s view, we can nurture positive changes: correct distorted ideas, encourage helpful coping, build good interpersonal skills, and foster management of intense emotions. And we can support mothers as they help their children heal and thrive.
A child who lives with violence is
forever changed, but not forever
"damaged." There’s a lot we can
do to make tomorrow better.
This resource draws together, in one place, information from the best and latest research for professionals and volunteers who help women and children.
Topics addressed include what children might feel, think and do during violent incidents against their mothers, roles they might adopt before, during or after incidents, strategies of coping and survival, and how violence may be experienced by children of different ages, from infancy to adolescence.
The purpose is to examine how violence against a mother can shape a child. By learning how each child as an individual was shaped by experiences in his or her home – and considering important contextual features of family life – we can devise ways to help.
- ‘little eyes , little ears’ how violence against a mother shapes children as they grow, by Alison Cunningham & Linda Baker the © 2007 Centre for Children and Families in the Justice System. Available at web site: http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/nc-cn
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The Right Touch: A Read-Aloud Story to Help Prevent Child Sexual Abuse (Jody Bergsma Collection) by Sandy Kleven |
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